22 WAYS TO HEAL · ORIGINAL WELLNESS ARTICLE

A Setback Is Not Your Identity

How to move forward when things do not go to plan

Separate the event from yourself

A disappointing grade, a missed opportunity or a bad game is something that happened. It is not a complete description of who you are.

Give yourself room to feel it

You can be frustrated, sad or embarrassed without rushing to turn the experience into a lesson. Emotions deserve acknowledgment.

Find what is within reach

Ask: What can I influence in the next twenty-four hours? Maybe it is sending an email, getting feedback, resting or returning to a routine.

Stay connected

Setbacks often make people withdraw. Consider telling one trusted person what happened and what kind of support would actually help.

Remember the bigger story

Your journey includes more than a single result. What have you learned about yourself from a challenge you have already survived?

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